When I’m searching for solutions, the last thing I want to hear is: “Ah, but you have everything you need.” Not because they’re annoying. Not because the advice is trope-y. Not because it feels unhelpful. But mainly because they’re normally totally right. And I don’t want to hear it. Because it doesn’t FEEL like I have what I need. Especially...

Have you ever got caught in the in between of not knowing what you want but knowing that you don’t want what you have? It’s the perfect recipe for being totally stuck. And totally lost (the latter of which I wrote an entire book about). When you say that you don’t know what you want, it’s in that moment that...