Advice isn’t always helpful. And it sure as hell isn’t neutral. But dang, do people love giving it. While there’s plenty of thoughtful and salient points out there, there’s also plenty of overused nuggets that aren’t given much thought. The intention is there, but without context and consideration, it’s a lazy way to look at life’s general challenges. What I...

Does everything have to be pushed to a head…right now? This second? Immediately? Does there have to be a decision right here, immediately? Or soon, at least? Make it black or white. Make it stay or go. Make it happening, or not. I’m the queen of this. I will blow things up, sometimes prematurely, sometimes with force, sometimes with risk,...