Everything that feels outrageous becomes courageous with time. Some of the most outrageous whispers I’ve followed. Some I’ve ignored…. Once I wanted to shave my head. Full shave. Rock on bald. Nahhhhh. Probs not my best look. I dreamt of just telling him about my insane crush even though I was pretty sure it wasn’t returned. Checkkkkkkkk. Check. Off the list....

I was once asked (on the spot in front of a pretty big group of people): what is your best career advice? It’s not often I’m caught off guard with a question that’s so in my realm. So part of my MO. And so totally a question I should be able to hit out of the ball park (not to mention...

Your magic changes everything. Your magic, in case you were wondering, is the way you change the world. It’s your love that warms the people around you. It’s your energy that lights up rooms. It’s what grounds those around you. It’s your warmth that brings smiles to strangers and dries the tears of besties. Your magic is that cute way you...

There’s much to love about the men in our lives. From the fathers who raised us, brothers who protected us, and beefcakes who pleasured us, men are great complements. And then we have our women. As ladies in the US, we’re spending more time single than any generation before, with a quarter of Millennials who may never put a ring...

Universal truth can be found anywhere. If you’re looking. And often it’s in the most unlikely places. Like a 12-year-old boy filming motivational messages on his selfie stick while he rollerblades. His name is Caleb and he said something in one of his fiery Facebook pep talks (yes, I really watch them) that crystalized one of the greatest lessons I...

There’s a stinging difference between being rejected and simply being told “no.” A rejection sucks. There’s no way around it. It can sink you into a dark hole, with the walls disintegrating around you just when it feels like you’re finally getting your footing. Sometimes it seems like it’s so much more than a no. It’s a massive setback. It’s about you....

We all want to be seen. Hand raised, here’s me. And we all go about different ways of doing that. Some channel that desire for significance for good. By adding value back into the lives of others. By lifting up the people they’re around, always. Others choose another path altogether. They make themselves seen destructively. Their search for significance comes from capitalizing...